The Reason You Can't Meet Someone On Dating Sites
There are two reasons you can't find a date. One we dealt with in the last post. The other we will tackle now. This is it. You're being a dick. How can you tell if your being a dick. One simple Internet test is that you consider it your duty to point out other people mistakes. What about flirt dating sites more generally?
You are dishonest
Or put more bluntly you are telling lies in your profile. Misrepresenting yourself will only lead to disappointment and distrust later on.
You are disrespectful
Respect the boundaries of others. If someone isn't interested, gracefully accept it and move on rather than pushing for a response.
You are rude
Communicate politely and respectfully. Avoid using offensive language or making inappropriate comments.
You aren't listening
Listen to what the other person is saying in their profile and messages, and respond thoughtfully. Show genuine interest in getting to know them.
If you're not interested in someone, it's better to let them know politely as soon as you figure out they aren't for you rather than disappearing without explanation.
You are leading people on
If you're not looking for a serious relationship, make that clear upfront. Don't lead others to believe you want something more than you do.
You are too pushy
Don't bombard someone with messages or expect instant responses. Respect their time and space.
If you are not sure after reading this you might be being a dick, think about how you approach others and if you would respond well to your approach.